Sunday, 11 May 2014

19/52 - three little loves



Lily

My sweet girl. Oh, how I love her. 

Every day she surprises me as she flourishes, grows, unfurls. 

What an amazing young woman she is becoming. I feel like I am only just getting to know her!





Eli

Oh Eli. 

When I see your sweet and impish face, my heart swells and lines from a poem spring to mind...

How could I not - give you my heart?
How could I not - love you?

Indeed... 




Miles

My funny little mountain goat.

There we were, just chilling on my bed and this little dude decides to use me as a climbing frame. Oh yeah, just clambered right on up me, and used my shoulder as a platform on his way to checking out the view at the top of my bed head. Can you believe this kid?? I guess I should be glad he is not standing on my head?!

So funny! :) Managed to grab my phone and snap a pic (so grainy, so sorry, so iPhone 4) before he shimmied down and on to his next adventure.

It made me chuckle all day. 

Oh, my boy, the places you'll go!

PS As this is closest to a baby book you'll get, I should record here how verbal you are getting these days! You especially love impressing the crowds with your animal sounds, and calling 'took, took!' (chook, chook) whenever you hear or see the chookies :) Best of all is hearing you sing so sweetly in tune - even 'Let it go' has made it into your repertoire!






Mark

'Whatta man, whatta man, whatta man, what a mighty good man!'

(Can't go past a good Salt&Pepa shout out!)

Yes, not only does he bring home the bacon, but also the groceries. 

:)



Project 52: A portrait of my family, once a week, every week, in 2014.




More highlights from the week that was...

We are a 'Frozen' obsessed household now, after getting the DVD. Last week we snuggled in for a family movie night
and everyone loved it... including Dad! Here the kids use a mirror as a frozen lake. While they rapturously sing 'Let it Go' the dolls skate around on the ice. When the chorus came, Eli would release a 'snowfall' of cotton balls with precise choreography. 
If I ask him for a pic, he just stands and smiles. Like, just sunny as can be. Sigh. Sooooo cute!
Then of course he breaks out the Crazy face..... 
Followed by the 'Innocent/Coy Face'
Followed by the 'Oh brother, how do I even caption this face!?' face!!!! Seriously, kid!!! *melt*
.... and then he is off again.
Daddy put your beanie on backyards, but you didn't seem to mind the little peephole!
Lily: Mummy, take a photo of me with Miles!
Miles: How about I just pull your hair instead?
Ok, not a great shot of Lily but I can't go past Miles' eager, adoring face, just waiting for Lily to turn around and have a giggle with him. #siblinglove


Off to church, and of course she takes her purse 'cos she is a real lady,
don't ya know?!


'Mama, look at me combing Miles' cute little curls!'
Puzzles. They are the big thing these days. Eli in particular is obsessed with them. Obsessed, I say. I need to take some better pics because it's such a big part of his life right now. I'm glad I held onto quite a few puzzles even though they are a nightmare to store! I did get rid of a few because Lily was never interested when she was younger. Oops. Now she loves doing them too. They will now often go into their room for an hour and quietly do puzzles together - especially these gorgeous sturdy wooden Melissa and Doug ones. Needless to say, I now love puzzles too ;) They do the puzzle, then just flip it out and do it again!! It's interesting to see how children cycle in and out of their interests, and we have never really had a puzzle phase but now... it's Puzzlemania around here!! I need a puzzle library or something!?
This terribly blurry pic had to be included 'cos it's still so cute. The kids insisted on taking Miles on a family stroll around the house before bed. He loved it. You can see why he does not really feel the need to walk independently yet, living the life of a prince around here!! ;)
Even Spiderman likes to kick back for a little afternoon reading, Mask and all.


I was musing this week about how it sometimes seems like the third child almost has to raise themselves! Well, in lots of ways as the baby, Miles gets a *lot* of doting and attention but in other ways, he just has to amuse himself a whole lot more (and thankfully he is very content to do so!) as the household and other kids also require so much attention! It's not so easy to make time to just be present, observe and engage. You know, just sit around and marvel at them like you did with the first child ;) This week I felt compelled to make some time. When he crawled up to the fridge to play with the magnets, I decided to sit with him. For ten minutes or so, I just watched, commentated on his play, engaged when he sought me out and simply observed the myriad of ways he was naturally exploring, problem solving and learning.

All with one simple little house magnet. This thin, tricky little magnet for some reason became his source of fascination. It was not easy to remove, or hold or turn. But he worked so hard on getting those teeny nails under the magnet. Once he had it, he would gleefully throw it on the ground (testing the theory of gravity, no doubt). He would then hunt around for it, often moving to check if it was under him. Then pick it up, work out which way he needed to hold it to stick it back on. Once it was stuck, he would give it a successful little pat (well done, me) and then a little poke with that delicious chubby finger along with a stream of gibberish (I am sure he was outlining to me his scientific process).

It was charming, fascinating, endearing... as these things always are to a mother's eye! ;)

How good it felt to just sit and soak up the wonder that is this little man. He is flourishing, and there is simply no stopping him now!! 

 
Find the magnet, pick it up and work out which side will stick back on the fridge.
Now you stay there, cheeky little magnet!
Oh wait, I just want to grab you and throw you on the ground again!!
The school Mother's Day stall was coming up. The deal was that you donated a gift (for another Mum) to the stall, then your child could take in $2 to purchase a gift for their own mum (for a little school fundraising). Because I am a cruel, harsh mother, I happily donated a gift but suggested to Lily that if she wanted $2 to spend (on me!), it would be good for her to do an extra task around the house to earn the money. After her initial bewilderment at such a concept. she cheerfully and extremely diligently took it on, wiping down all the lower kitchen cabinets. I don't think they have ever sparkled so!
Lily and Miles having a little playtime together. They have such a sweet bond, and she always loves to ask for 'just a little play with Baby Miles by myself'




A morning walk to collect a basket of beautiful Autumn leaves...
pretty leaf collages to come!





Sunday, 4 May 2014

18/52 - the swing of things




Lily

My little monkey all decked out in her winter uniform.... looking like quite the English school girl.
She is very, very pleased about being able to wear a dress and stockings to school every.single.day!!! 

Yep, it was back to school once more, this week. We had such a fantastic school holidays, with a good mix of travel and fun and chilling out. It felt especially relaxing as Mark had the rest of last week off after our coast trip. How nice it is to potter around the house together... but it was time for regular life to resume.






Eli

Our lovely friend Amber very kindly passed down to us her train table with an assortment of accessories. Such a large 'kid's furniture item' was something I had always avoided purchasing as I thought it wouldn't get used enough, plus they take up so much room. However, we had the space in our new family room arrangement and Eli had recently really gotten into trains so it seemed like a good thing to try out.

Well, it has quickly turned into a 'how did we ever not have this staple piece' situation! We love it!! It's such a great size and set up, and the kids have spent so much time crouched around the table, immersed in play. Not just trains but also blocks, animals, lego, etc. All manner of scenes and activities unfold. As an added bonus, because it's up on the table I am ok with activities being left out so they can make their complex set ups (an animal hospital, for example!) then return to it throughout the day when they have time to spare. An unexpected benefit is that they are able to extend their play as they build upon their ideas each time. It's just lovely to see a new approach to play unfolding - and it doubles as a coffee table too! ;)

Eli races his trains around the track with high speed!

(Thanks, Amber - it is being well used and well loved!)





Miles

I did a simple sensory activity with my littlest this week. Inspired by my lovely friend at An Everyday Story's 'transforming your play' challenge, we used a mirror to extend the experience. 

Just a basket, some cotton balls, wooden blocks, and a mirror. I presented the items to Miles, then let him explore freely. There was a lot of kissing himself in the mirror and tossing blocks and cotton balls hither and thither! ;) However, his favourite activity was very intently placing all the cotton balls into the basket. He was so serious about it! It was lovely to watch him explore, and interesting to see how the mirror brought a new element to the exploration - looking at the reflection as he held or stacked things.







Mark

Well, I am a lucky girl as my hubby actually loves going shopping with me (yes, even window shopping). We always have such a lovely time just strolling hand-in-hand, browsing interesting shops. However, the opportunity to do so these days (kid-free) is virtually non-existent!! But it was his birthday wish to go shopping together as he really needed some new clothes, so we managed to organise it the week after his birthday.

Ohhh, we had a grand old time, wandering around together, with no distractions, just me and my guy and a little peaceful retail therapy! Just what we needed :) Footloose and fancy-free, haha!

We managed to get him a whole new outfit - shirt, jeans and shoes... so of course I made him pose for me the next day, looking all handsome xx



Project 52: A portrait of my family, once a week, every week, in 2014.




More highlights from the week that was...


Need a cure for what ails ya this winter? For colds, coughs, sniffles, sore throats and so on, cook up a batch of this nourishing drink: Half fill a pot with water, then add quartered lemons (yes, the whole lemon, rind and all!), garlic cloves, chunks of ginger, and a good dash of cayenne pepper (it helps clears the sinus and loosens congestion). I also threw in some kale fresh from our garden, just cos we had it and hey, kale is good for everything, right?! Simmer for about 30 minutes till everything goes super soft, then use your stick mixer and blend the whole thing up!! Strain it through a sieve if you like and keep in the fridge. Whenever you need a warming, healing drink, pour an inch or so into a mug, add boiling hot water and a teaspoon or two (or three!) of quality honey. Mmmmmmm, soothes the soul and the body!


'tooooot, toooooot'
Daddy gives Lily a lesson in polishing up her school shoes, fresh for a new term (and I'm so pleased at how well her shoes are wearing so far!).
Aw! Daddy/daughter shoe polishing, haha.

The night before school started back, we decided to do a little marshmallow
roast in the brazier. As Miles watched in utter fascination from the safety of
his highchair, we all roasted marshmallows and enjoyed a roaring fire and the
pleasure of our last 'holiday event' before school and work commenced once
more. Fire & sugar are always a winning combo, haha ;)


Ok, I got a little obsessed with trying to capture the captivating flames! Night/fire photography is haaaard, I had
no idea what I was doing so please bear with me as I play around! 



A single ember floats away...
my firebug!!



After 'one of those days' when patience is short and you want to put parenting into the 'too hard basket' for a while,
(but you can't!!), it was time to start afresh with prayers for wisdom and grace going up on the regular. When the kids asked if they could have a 'real tea party' and would I please sit down with them too, it was time to put the never-ending to-do list aside and just sit and enjoy some lukewarm Rooibos tea with my little treasures. I'm glad I did.




We couldn't resist going to see the Duke and Duchess aka Will and Kate when they were in town last week. I thought it
would be fun to tell the kids in years to come that they saw them! Our whole family lined up outside the Portrait Gallery for their visit for about 1.5 hours to see them arrive and depart. Well, they didn't walk right along where we lined up, but we were about 20m from where they got in and out of their car (we got a wave!) and then they drove right by! Well, it was a brush with royalty at least!! A fun little adventure with a story to tell. The kids waited soooo patiently and didn't even complain when in the end we didn't get to actually meet them. Little champs :) (Will is smiling from the back seat
of the car in the pic, Kate is next to him! We did get video of her but no pics, oops)

Our 'princess bait' - cute kids, flowers, toy and hand made card
by Lily. Unfortunately the lure didn't work but we still had fun :)



One by one, the cotton balls got put in the basket!


A cheeky look!
A little 'before school' imaginative play after their charts are complete. 
Every morning after breakfast, the kids tear into the backyard with baskets in hand to collect the eggs.
I love that they can do this independently, thanks to our low coop set up. They shriek with joy every single day when they find them and proudly bring them inside. And of course we all love eating them!! Mmmm, fresh eggs are so delish :)